"Joy and pleasure are as real as pain and sorrow and one must learn what they have to teach. . . ." -- Sean Russell, from Gatherer of Clouds

"If you're not having fun, you're not doing it right." -- Helyn D. Goldenberg

"I love you and I'm not afraid." -- Evanescence, "My Last Breath"

“If I hear ‘not allowed’ much oftener,” said Sam, “I’m going to get angry.” -- J.R.R. Tolkien, from Lord of the Rings
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

And Now, the Antidote

I love this sort of thing:

The first kiss for a returning sailor after a long deployment at sea is a sweet and memorable tradition. But in what is believed to be a first for the Royal Canadian Navy, that time-honoured ceremonial kiss was between two men.

There were loud cheers today when Master Seaman Francis Legare embraced his partner, Corey Vautour, after more than eight months at sea. “I have been away for 255 days, so it feels great,” a smiling Legare said. “I am speechless.”

HMCS Winnipeg, which has a crew of 250, returned to Victoria on Tuesday after a tour in the Caribbean and eastern Pacific. Being the first sailor off a ship is considered an honour and privilege in the Canadian navy, and it’s decided by a random raffle.


Toto, I don't think we're in Texas any more.

Friday, March 15, 2013

All Fathers Should Be Like This One

I don't think I need to comment on this:


Sorry for the size on this -- Blogger has decided that I don't need to edit images. Here's a transcript, via Towleroad:

Nate,

I overheard your phone conversation with Mike last night about your plans to come out to me. The only thing I need you to plan is to bring home OJ and bread after class. We are out, like you now.

I’ve known you were gay since you were six, I’ve loved you since you were born.

- Dad

P.S. Your mom and I think you and Mike make a cute couple.

I mean, what more needs to be said?




Saturday, February 02, 2013

Survivors

Those of us who, somehow, are still alive. Read this post from Joe.My.God., but brace yourself -- it's devastating. The comments are, many of them, even more so -- so many of us lived that story.

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

We're Not Alone



Got this article from a friend in Australia. Some interesting information on the reactions of other members of the animal kingdom to death:

Chimpanzees, as reported in next month's issue of National Geographic, and the closely related bonobos maintain complex societies, largely held together by sex and grooming.

They have often been seen apparently grieving for family and tribe members by entering a period of mourning after a death and showing subdued emotions and behaviour.

Such complex emotions may not even be unique to primates or even mammals.

This month University of Colorado ethologist Dr Marc Bekoff reported that magpies appeared to grieve for the dead and carry out a type of funeral ritual.

In one instance, four magpies in turn approached a comrade's corpse.

Two birds then flew off to return with a piece of grass, which they laid by the corpse. The birds then stood vigil.


Here's a portion of my comment in response:

I'm also willing to credit the idea that animals have much more intense and active emotional lives than we are willing to admit. Just watching my own cats over the years, as they had spats, wouldn't speak to each other, made up, developed crushes, and wanted reassurance -- and their reactions when the matriarch died of a stroke one morning (they seemed bewildered, and were very quiet and withdrawn) -- has reinforced that idea. It would be arrogant in the extreme to suppose that something as closely related to us as chimpanzees don't feel things in much the same way we do. In fact -- and this just occurred to me -- given the increasing evidence of same-sex bonding throughout the animal kingdom, can anyone really suppose there's no emotional component to that (or pair-bonding in general, of course), however bare-bones it might be?

Food for thought.

Monday, April 27, 2009

Christian the Lion

If you want to start the week with tears streaming down your face, watch this: